How Perfection is Holding you Back

March 14, 2018 By: KylaM - No Comments

So I almost didn’t share this video because it is far from perfect. I even had in my notes ‘not as strong of a video’. I was thinking of filming it again or not sharing it at all. But then I read the title again and thought to myself hmm, perhaps I have more to learn about not needing to be perfect.

This video is not perfect, none of my videos are but if I waited for them to be perfect you would not be seeing any of them. When I watch my videos as I edit them I see all the imperfections. I have thoughts of why did I say that? Why wasn’t I clearer? Why am I wearing that? Why am I not looking at the camera?

It’s seriously so annoying when I am editing the videos. But if I let those thoughts hold me back I will never release any new content to you.

Isn’t silly how we expect perfection from ourselves? What tells us we have to be perfect? I know for myself it comes from fear of judgement or failure.

My need for perfection has slowed me down more than once in my life. As I have gotten older I am more willing to be ‘imperfect’ and have learned to love myself and my life.

Watch my imperfect video to learn more about the not so good about perfection

Now I’d love to hear from you. In the comments below please share when has perfection held you back in your life? What was your perfection protecting you from? Fear of judgement or loss of love? And what steps can you take to let go of perfection to help you realize your goals?

Remember that no one is perfect and if we wait to be perfect we will never move forward with our desires. By allowing yourself to be ‘imperfect’ you will be able to move forward with your desires. There is no such thing as perfect only the best we can do and your best is great.

Thanks for watching and sharing!

All my best,

Kyla

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